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How To Give Oral Sex To A Woman

True cunnilingus impossible to perform without basic knowledge about female genital anatomy. In such exciting task as cunnilingus in the center of attention is clitoris.  Imagine that clitoris in a woman is like penis in a man. It is easy to imagine it when you know that during prenatal development of fetus, clitoris is the same penis. The only thing is that at particular stage of pregnancy occurs fetus sex differentiation under the act of sexual hormones which stops clitoris development into penis.

Clitoris, like penis, reacts perfectly to tender touches and shrinks from rough touches. So if you want to perform true cunnilingus you should never twitch clitoris too intensively and never bite it with your teeth! Instead, you should make slow circular motions with your tongue around clitoris – in most women this area is much sensitive than clitoris itself. Intensify motions of your tongue gradually.

In several minutes  start sucking it. Suck it tenderly, with intervals. Alternate sucking with other motions: with alternating moves (now flittering, now pressing) guide the tip of your tongue across the area which is covered with labia majora, caress her pubis with nose…. It depends on your fantasy how you act on the peak of passion.

What next? Here are different variants. You may move to vagina or keep playing with her labia majora and labia minora.
1) Lip-to-lip kiss. Keep your face at an angle, approach it to female genitalia, imagine it an ordinary kiss. Start kissing labia very gently. Then move to passionate kisses, moving more deeply.
2) Penetration into vagina. Do not take your tongue away from anus, guide it to vagina and enter it. Imitate frictions with your tongue, experiment with speed and tenacity. Here woman will welcome intensive motions of your tongue.

You may continue cunnilingus with first variant and then move to second one, or you may start with second variant at once. It’s up to you to choose. In case woman is strongly aroused, probably there will be no point in these variants. True cunnilingus is estimated just by one thing: your woman must cry from orgasm.

Some women get more pleasure in this sex position (image below) where her legs are not spread widely.

Signs Of True Female Orgasm

Woman may show any feelings, emotions and even muscular contraction of vagina (which occurs during orgasm). And she may breathe so quickly as if she has tired. And also she may smile happily and foolishly. All this may do a sly and smart woman.  However, there are “signs” which impossible to fake.

1. When woman achieves orgasm she closes her eyes for a while.

2. During orgasm brain not receives oxygen and in female occurs rhytmical muscle contraction of vagina, alvus, pelvic floor and even muscles of prelum abdominale with an interval 0,8 seconds similar to pulsation and it impossible not to notice that. Not each woman may simulate rhytmical contraction of vaginal muscles which occurs during orgasm and if male not felt this pulsation with his penis but just saw her twitch then this is orgasm imitation.

3. Woman never breaks contact between erogenic zone and stimulant (penis, hand,  tongue, vibrator) before she finished. Only after orgasm most women take away male hand from clitoris if stimulation becomes painful.

4. When sex finishes with orgasm her body gets relaxed and woman wants to rest silently, she wants nearly to sleep. When woman got excited and has not released her energy then, as a rule, she is active for some time because she got nothing during sex and tries to get something by kissing or talking.

5. Female face, who feels orgasm, gets pinched with uncontrolled mow. This not speaks about unpleasure – woman just cannot manage her facial muscles. When you see on her face expression of unearthly pleasure it means this is stimulation. Thankful smile and expression of pleasure appear on female face afterwards when she will feel quite herself and relaxed. It is impossible to maintain expression of pleasure on the face during true orgasm.

6. During orgasm female heart starts strongly and frequently beating. During imitation heart beating is always the same.

Sex Position: Man Standing \ Woman Sitting

This position is perfect for those who have no much sexual experience. This sexual position is especially good for those who make sex for the first time. This position helps male easily and more painless to deflower his virgin partner.

Male and female start with foreplay. When both lovers feel they are ready for sexual intercourse, woman sits down on the edge of the surface getting her legs down. She spreads her hips widely. Man stands up between female legs and holding buns with his arms he penetrates into vagina. Female may lie back but most couples do prefer to make sex when female is sitting down because lovers have a wonderful opportunity to maintain eye contact which helps to arousal especially during orgasm.

During penetration, base of the penis presses hard female pubis and this additionally stimulates her clitoris. That is why women, who need clitoris stimulation to achieve orgasm, love this position. Nearly any woman in this position arises rapidly and easily achieves orgasm while male ejaculations occurs not so quickly.

Here male adopts an active role. To ease frictions male can enfold female buns and pull her more closer to him. Woman is on “cloud nine” when man alternates deep and shallow penetrations. Lovers should try various movements during sexual intercourse. It is always preferable when female finishes first or both partners do it together. Never forget about kisses and other ways of petting. Acting on erogenic zones of partner you help him to orgasm.

See also:
Man-On-Top (Missionary Position)
Woman-On-Top

Common Condom Use Tips

Condoms do not love “dummies”. They require attention while their usage! Ignorance may result in a unintended pregnancy, gonorrhea (any other venereal disease) and in worst case – in HIV. Find out tips on correct condom use.

1. Do not put condom on at the middle of sexual intercourse

According to the data of an American survey, about 44% women ask their partners to put condom on after penis penetration into vagina. Women say they remember about condom being in passion when partner is already in. After women come into their senses, they ask the partner to put condom on and think that safe sex is guaranteed. And how wrong they are! Medical experts say that this leads to unintended pregnancy and venereal disease transmission.

2. Do not keep condoms in the pocket or in the purse

Remember that heat and humidity are bad for condoms. It is recommended to keep condoms in a dry cold place. For example, in the night table behind your bed. And if sex is going to be spontaneous then you always may go to the pharmacy.

3. Never use condom more than once

It turned out that many people use condoms more than once. For example, when partner did not manage to finish but condom is already on, many think they can put condom off till prime time Sounds funny? No, it sounds rather sad. Some men use condom for several ejaculations (when sexual intercourses occur one by one with little pauses) and they motivate it as follows “Why to spend money? And condom is made of latex. It is a rubber!” Experts say that if you do not want to get presents from Venus and Stork, make it a rule to use condom just once and not more. It makes no difference if was ejaculation or not.

4. Pay attention on expire date

How often do you look on the expiration date of condoms? Never. And how wrong you are! Remember that condoms out of expire date may have micro ruptures and it makes condom unsafe protection.

5. Do not use scissors to open condoms package

Do not open condom package also with other cutting objects or teeth. Remember that such barbaric methods may crap the product.

6. Put condom off after sexual intercourse

Experts warn that sperm may squirt out of condom when penis starts getting smaller after ejaculation. It is necessary to withdraw penis from vagina immediately after intercourse holding upper part of condom with fingers.

7. Use lubricant

Even if condom is put on correctly, it may break. So it is necessary to use always lubricant or condoms with lubricants.