Major Mistakes Men Make In Bed. Part One.
During sex not all men notice what they do wrong to a woman. Instead, all women know, notice and understand what men do wrong in relation to them. Let’s see now what mistakes men do in bed. Learn to avoid them.
1. Men do not care about the place where they want to invite a woman
Each woman has her own preferences about the appropriate place and time for making sex, and if she chooses your variant the place must be clean and nice: no pizza boxes, no beer cans on the floor, no dirty dishes and socks in the room, no unpleasant smell. Instead, make harvest, prepare good music, buy wine.
2. Men disregard foreplay
From time to time we do feel strong passion when it would be insane to spend time for foreplay. However, it occurs not always and usually foreplay helps to arouse a woman. How long should last foreplay? It depends on how you may feel your woman. The night you spend with a woman should leave a good memory. Absence of foreplay may result in absence of orgasm in your woman, and she would try to forget this night with you as soon as possible.
3. Men lose control in the bed
You haven’t lost your composure when she was sitting next to you in a sexy dress with a low cut. You were brittle in the car and while sitting next to each other on the sofa when she put her hand on your knee. So why should you lose control in the bed? Remain distant in the bed too, and this will make your woman want you even more which will result in unforgeable sexual intercourse for both of you.
4. Men ignore female body language
In most cases women feel shy to say what they expect from their partner in sex, instead, female body knows to signalize exactly her desires. A man should never ignore these signs. Watch her reactions on your touch and you will understand how to love her - more gently or more hardly.
5. Men want all at once
Women prefer to try something new in sex with the partner she trusts. This needs time. You should never hurry her and try to force the events. Introduce new sex positions and realize your sexual dreams gradually.
To be continued.
How To Use Condoms Correctly?
Condoms should be kept in a cool dry place, away from direct sunlight. Trouser pockets are not the best place for long-term storage (for weeks and months). Temperature in pockets is higher than temperature needed for long-term condom storage. Besides this, long-term storage in trouser pockets along with permanent rub may break package integrity.
When you buy condoms, pay attention to expiration date. Usage of expired condoms is most common cause of their break. Buy condoms in pharmacy because in pharmacy there is less chance to buy expired condoms. In pharmacy is kept necessary temperature regime.
Right way to use a condom
- Before using a condom assure yourself of expiration date and package integrity.
- Open package carefully. Do not use sharp objects (knives, scissors, teeth). Be careful with sharp fingernails.
- How to put on a condom? Condom should be put on an erected (hard) penis. Pull foreskin back and put condom on penis head. Fastening with big and pointer fingers, squeeze out air from reservoir from condom tip. Unroll condom all the way.
- Condom should be put on during the whole sexual intercourse.
- After sexual intercourse is finished, gently remove condom while holding the penis.
- Never use one condom twice!
One more important thing is lubrication. Low lubrication may cause condom break. Use personal lubricants if necessary and choose water-based ones because oil-based lubricants may break condom.
How To Prolong Sexual Intercourse. Sex Positions.
Woman-On-Top Sex Position
This sex position helps to prolong sexual intercourse without special strenuous activity which may be important for males suffering from cardiovascular diseases and obesity. However, there are some tips which you should know to make intercourse last longer.
Common variant of this sex position when woman sits on top of a lying male with her face turned to him, male can hardly control his frictions. In this variant of woman-on-top position it would be better for a male to put a pillow below his back to take semi-sitting position. Thus he may control her movements by holding her buns and moving them up and down.
A vary good variant is when woman sits with her back towards male face.
How To Prolong Sexual Intercourse. Sex Positions.
One of most common sexual problems is insufficient duration of sexual intercourse. Intercourse in which ejaculation occurs in 3 minutes of active frictions cannot be called pathology. However, if such duration of intercourse doesn’t satisfy both partners, then it needs a correction.
Right sex positions may help male to prolong sexual intercourse. In fact, here are good all sex positions which allow male to control his frictions. Moreover, to prolong sexual intercourse often important is not position itself but its comfort for both partners.
Man-on-top (Missionary) Sex Position
In this sex position intercourse finishes quickly if male makes quick frictions at ones after penetration at full depth of penis. Usually this problem occurs in unexperienced men.
To prolong intercourse in this sex position, male should restrict amplitudes and frequency of frictions at the very beginning. When he feels ejaculation coming he must take his penis out of vagina, take a deep breath and stretch abdomen muscles. This exercise helps to prevent ejaculation and prolong sexual intercourse.
Generally, alternating rhythm of male movements and different penis penetration depth help to prolong sexual intercourse.
In some cases duration of intercourse in missionary sex position is too short because penis erection disappears before orgasm. Here important role play some anatomic peculiarities of genitalia in partners when in this sex position vagina walls come in contact with male penis not closely. In this case the next variant of missionary position is recommended. Male stretches his legs, lifts his body bending in his loin and leaning on his straight arms. In order to increase friction force in missionary position, female should pull her legs together. Male movements not necessarily should be vertical. They may be directed sidewards, and male with turning his pelvis may give his penis complicated intravaginal movements.
Morning Sex
How do you wake up in the morning? Do you get up after wake-up call, and damning own sleepiness you brush up in five minutes and rush to the job? Or you just lazily open your eyes, reach after TV board without any desire to get up and to occupy with domesticities? These are not best ways to begin you day. It is more pleasurable and healthy to start your day with sex.
Intimate relationships we do associate with night, firstly, because time for love making is not limited, and secondly, because after sexual intercourse we can relax and fall asleep. However, latest study showed that exactly in the morning male and female bodies are ready for sexual intercourse.
Awakening for sex making is very pleasant. Sexologists questioned a number of couples who lived together and discovered that nine in ten males and seven in ten women would love to change night sex makings for morning ones. However, most of them say nothing about it to their partners because they are afraid that their partner would refuse from this idea.
Besides this, morning sex is healthy. It helps to maintain body in tonus, fills body and soul with energy, makes you look at the world around more optimistic, helps to better concentration. Also morning sex has positive effects on your appearance by improving complexion and making eyes shine and mouth laugh.
Morning sex is a perfect alternative to morning exercises. And morning sex helps immune system work much better during the whole day.
In order to spend one hour in the morning for sex most people may need to take it from night sleep. So it would be better for you to go to sleep one hour earlier in order to begin your next day with great pleasure.
Rules Of Love Making
Pretty woman, do you want a wonderful night? Then you and your partner should find out major rules of a magnificent sex taken from Kamasutra tractate! Sexual intercourse mostly depends on how it begins. Sometimes one unnecessary word or motion may spoil everything. Therefore, at the beginning you should say to yourself that sex is not just physical satisfaction.
Intimacy for physical wants satisfaction differs from love pleasure as poor men meals differs from royal ones. That is why Kamasutra considers that you must know rules of love making:
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Petting should come before sex and it should be four times longer than sex
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Sexual intercourse must be four times longer than is necessary for satisfaction
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Petting must finish sexual intercourse and it must take the same time as sexual intercourse itself
