Sexlife

5 Things You Probably Didn’t Know About Sex

1. Females may have ejaculation too
Many women may confirm that during orgasm their genitalia releases a certain liquid and this is not natural lubricant. The liquid is transparent, has no smell and is released from urethra in amount of several drops to quite significant extents. By the way, female ejaculation may be an after-effect of orgasm after stimulation of famous G-spot.

2. It may occur that genitals of both partners does not fit
As they say, he has a “key” and she has a “lock”. However, not always man and woman fit together. It may be compared to pieces of puzzle where only a proper piece gets on its spot. Do not worry about it, because in most cases imperfect coincidence of genitals may be recompensed with properly chosen sex position!

3. Women feel more pleasure when is stimulated left side of clitoris
It turned out that not whole female clitoris is equally sensitive.Woman feels peak of pleasure when in the process is involved most sensitive clitoris areas. There found scientists who studied this subject and there found volunteers who agreed to study this delicate part of the body. Those studies showed that touching left side of clitoris is much pleasant in comparison with right its side.

4. The intensity of female desire depends on menstrual cycle
Many women say that strongest sexual desire coincides in them with ovulation period. There is good reason for that. Testosterone level is on top and this charges a woman with necessary energy. We can call it nature’s joke: women most of all want sex at the moment when it is not safe for them. Sure, in case they do not plan to become mothers.

5. Women may experience multiple orgasms
After sex man is out of action for some time. Women not. However, many women think that to have one orgasm is a great luck. When a man succeeds in disclosing the secret of pleasure in his woman, he may give her many pleasant moments.

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6. Men treat a woman irreverently
Though in porn movies a man is presented as a macho who treats woman disparagingly, in real life a rare woman allows it. Woman may play your game at the beginning in order to afford pleasure to you, but soon her reaction would be quite negative. If you are really captivated by this kind of sex, before you turn it into reality you should be entirely sure that your woman has same views on rudeness, ejaculation on her body or face, humiliating treatment.

7. Men order about a woman
When you want to say your partner about your sexual desires in bed, about sex positions and how she should move, never do it in a commanding tone. You should say about your sexual desires in a mild voice watching tenderly in her eyes. You may say nothing at all, just gently guide her body in a needed direction and watch her reaction. Remember that gentle approach gives much better results.

8. Men do ignore female erogenous zones
Besides apparent erogenous zones on a female body, there are many other ones less apparent but very significant. You should stimulate not only her breast but also clavicle, touch her back with your fingers, kiss her thighs, legs, feet.

9. Men think that if they had orgasm their partner remain satisfied too
Remember that besides you in the sexual intercourse participates a woman who also would like to feel orgasm. At least, try to give pleasure to her. How to differ real female orgasm from fake? It is simple. After having orgasm a woman is not much disposed to conversations in bed, she would prefer to sleep along with you.

10. Men go away immediately after sex
This is most awful thing which a man can do. If you do not like very much the woman with whom you spent night, at least talk to her 30 minutes before leaving. The next time it would be better for you to use services of a prostitute. It would be more honest.

How To Give Oral Sex To A Woman

True cunnilingus impossible to perform without basic knowledge about female genital anatomy. In such exciting task as cunnilingus in the center of attention is clitoris. Imagine that clitoris in a woman is like penis in a man. It is easy to imagine it when you know that during prenatal development of fetus, clitoris is the same penis. The only thing is that at particular stage of pregnancy occurs fetus sex differentiation under the act of sexual hormones which stops clitoris development into penis.

Clitoris, like penis, reacts perfectly to tender touches and shrinks from rough touches. So if you want to perform true cunnilingus you should never twitch clitoris too intensively and never bite it with your teeth! Instead, you should make slow circular motions with your tongue around clitoris – in most women this area is much sensitive than clitoris itself. Intensify motions of your tongue gradually.

In several minutes start sucking it. Suck it tenderly, with intervals. Alternate sucking with other motions: with alternating moves (now flittering, now pressing) guide the tip of your tongue across the area which is covered with labia majora, caress her pubis with nose…. It depends on your fantasy how you act on the peak of passion.

What next? Here are different variants. You may move to vagina or keep playing with her labia majora and labia minora.
1) Lip-to-lip kiss. Keep your face at an angle, approach it to female genitalia, imagine it an ordinary kiss. Start kissing labia very gently. Then move to passionate kisses, moving more deeply.
2) Penetration into vagina. Do not take your tongue away from anus, guide it to vagina and enter it. Imitate frictions with your tongue, experiment with speed and tenacity. Here woman will welcome intensive motions of your tongue.

You may continue cunnilingus with first variant and then move to second one, or you may start with second variant at once. It’s up to you to choose. In case woman is strongly aroused, probably there will be no point in these variants. True cunnilingus is estimated just by one thing: your woman must cry from orgasm.

Some women get more pleasure in this sex position (image below) where her legs are not spread widely.

How To Prolong Sex

When you’ve got enough time for sex and you have a great desire to make it last longer, you should know how to do it. Here are some tips which help you to prolong your sex.

1) Delay orgasm

Choose sex positions which arouse you least of all. There is no common recommendation, because people are different and only you know which position it is. As you know, “back positions” provide greatest arousal. Change positions when you feel you lose control and you are close to orgasm.

However, it is quite risky to be “on the edge” but you will be always excited and your passion won’t fade away during the whole sexual intercourse. Remember that orgasm never means finish of your love marathon. You may have a little rest and then continue. This is a wonderful opportunity to try different sex positions never used before.

2) Love each other

In case orgasm occurred or you need a rest after an exhausting sex, you may easily move center of attention from you to your partner. You may spend your time on massage, kisses and tender touches. It is not necessarily to make sex all the time – pleasant tender touches show love as well.

3) Do not abuse alcohol

As you know, alcohol helps to relax and it may be a perfect addition to the time that you intend to spend with your partner. However, remember that two and more big portions of alcohol do reduce male ability to achieve and maintain erections.

Too much alcohol may result in male’s inability to orgasm. Other calming property of alcohol is that it easily sends you to sleep. Moreover, alcohol prompts you to wicked pranks such as making sex without using condom. As you see, too much alcohol may prevent you from sex marathon.

4) Be inventive

Sex is a quite broad notion, so do not limit yourself to standard sexual intercourse or oral sex. Use various sex toys, vibrators, anal toys, attributes (quirt, strings, binded eyes). Experiment with foods, it also gives pleasure: ice cream, chocolate sause, whipping cream. Choose what you like both. In other words, be inventive and don’t be afraid to experiment!

Signs Of True Female Orgasm

Woman may show any feelings, emotions and even muscular contraction of vagina (which occurs during orgasm). And she may breathe so quickly as if she has tired. And also she may smile happily and foolishly. All this may do a sly and smart woman. However, there are “signs” which impossible to fake.

1. When woman achieves orgasm she closes her eyes for a while.

2. During orgasm brain not receives oxygen and in female occurs rhytmical muscle contraction of vagina, alvus, pelvic floor and even muscles of prelum abdominale with an interval 0,8 seconds similar to pulsation and it impossible not to notice that. Not each woman may simulate rhytmical contraction of vaginal muscles which occurs during orgasm and if male not felt this pulsation with his penis but just saw her twitch then this is orgasm imitation.

3. Woman never breaks contact between erogenic zone and stimulant (penis, hand, tongue, vibrator) before she finished. Only after orgasm most women take away male hand from clitoris if stimulation becomes painful.

4. When sex finishes with orgasm her body gets relaxed and woman wants to rest silently, she wants nearly to sleep. When woman got excited and has not released her energy then, as a rule, she is active for some time because she got nothing during sex and tries to get something by kissing or talking.

5. Female face, who feels orgasm, gets pinched with uncontrolled mow. This not speaks about unpleasure – woman just cannot manage her facial muscles. When you see on her face expression of unearthly pleasure it means this is stimulation. Thankful smile and expression of pleasure appear on female face afterwards when she will feel quite herself and relaxed. It is impossible to maintain expression of pleasure on the face during true orgasm.

6. During orgasm female heart starts strongly and frequently beating. During imitation heart beating is always the same.

Sex Position: Man Standing \ Woman Sitting

This position is perfect for those who have no much sexual experience. This sexual position is especially good for those who make sex for the first time. This position helps male easily and more painless to deflower his virgin partner.

Male and female start with foreplay. When both lovers feel they are ready for sexual intercourse, woman sits down on the edge of the surface getting her legs down. She spreads her hips widely. Man stands up between female legs and holding buns with his arms he penetrates into vagina. Female may lie back but most couples do prefer to make sex when female is sitting down because lovers have a wonderful opportunity to maintain eye contact which helps to arousal especially during orgasm.

During penetration, base of the penis presses hard female pubis and this additionally stimulates her clitoris. That is why women, who need clitoris stimulation to achieve orgasm, love this position. Nearly any woman in this position arises rapidly and easily achieves orgasm while male ejaculations occurs not so quickly.

Here male adopts an active role. To ease frictions male can enfold female buns and pull her more closer to him. Woman is on “cloud nine” when man alternates deep and shallow penetrations. Lovers should try various movements during sexual intercourse. It is always preferable when female finishes first or both partners do it together. Never forget about kisses and other ways of petting. Acting on erogenic zones of partner you help him to orgasm.

Sex Position: Woman-On-Top

In this position male lies on his back and female stays above him straddling. Many men consider this the most simple position in which they may learn to control their ejaculation to have multiple orgasms. In this position male may relax his pelvic muscles and concentrate on the degree of arousal.

Female in this position may direct penis movements into most sensitive areas of her vagina including G-spot – that is why many females are able to have orgasms many times. Also female may keep penis head in most sensitive vagina areas situated in two inches from entering. It is very difficult for a male to keep his penis two inches from entering being in man-on-top position because he aims to penetrate deeper into dense areas what makes him finish more quickly.

In this position female may make rotatory movements in order to make male penis rub against her vagina walls on any depth and on any direction. Male may use his fingers to stimulate her clitoris and help her finish. Another advantage of this position is that male may kiss her breasts.

Woman-on-top position is a comfortable one when male is much bigger than female and aims to finish quickly, or when female is pregnant. Older males and males with cardio-vascular problems consider this position best one, because it not requires much tension.

Foreplay Techniques and Tips

Is it good to start making sex without foreplay? No, because foreplay makes hot both you and your partner (a kind of stretching exercises before heavy ones) and also helps to moderate arousal in men and make women hot. Women need much these lovings.

In order to achieve colorful orgasm a female should be “heated” enough. Females may be compared with an iron which gets hot longer, and longer cools down. But males can be compared with a lightbulb which gets hot rapidly, and rapidly cools down.

It is wrong to think that foreplay is good just for females. First of all, foreplay is pleasant for both partners, it helps partners to love reciprocal each other. Furthermore, males with the increase of years also start getting hot much longer. This is individually. Someone need 5 minutes to get hot, and some need an hour for that. This depends on temperament and emotional bond between partners. The British conducted a study during which it was revealed that 17 minutes is enough for foreplay.

Foreplay Techniques

Do not hurry

Kiss and love her very slowly and this will make het arouse greatly.

Talk to her

Everybody knows that females love with their ears. Your voice will make her hot much stronger.

Play with her

Tease her making everything you want but without crossing the line permitted. You will see how much she would ask more.

Do not be afraid to look unfashionable

Simple and ordinary things in sex may drive any woman crazy. But the originality is welcome as well. Here is sequence of lovings in foreplay:

Hands. Take her hands in yours, kiss her fingers, then kiss her palms, try to feel her pulse with your tongue.
Breast. Never squeeze breast and screw nipples at the very beginning of the foreplay. Better take breasts in your hands and slowly turn them. When the nipples will swell – play with them.
Strong kiss. Let your tongue play with her lips and her tongue, use the tip of your tongue for that.
Kissing different parts of her body will finish the foreplay. After that you may move to the key goal that is sexual intercourse.

Your Sexual Dreams

Dreams, especially the ones we remember clearly even in several hours after awake, do reflect important processes occurring in our subconsciousness. Therefore, there it is little wonder in juicy dreams that visit almost all mature men and women.

The instinct of family line continuation is one of the basic instincts along with the instinct of self-preservation. Sexual dreams do not necessarily contain episodes of lovemaking. They may be manifested in special symbols and characters. For example, men dream various tunnels, caves, hills and mountains. Women dream cigars, rockets, skyscrapers, and other phallic symbols.

Don’t worry if you in your dream make immoralities or if you go through sexual violence. Thus, subconscious mind naturally works off your deep fears and complexes. Also orgasm (micro orgasm or excessive ejaculation) in the dream is safe for your mental and physical health. It is an absolutely normal hormonal process especially for men.