Sexlife

Rules of Threesome (one man and two women)

Foreplay
Foreplay should not only arouse you and your two women, but also to eliminate all remains of uneasiness and moral tension. Therefore, you should spend more time on foreplay – kisses and slight innocent touches. In case of spontaneous sudden sex it would be better to drop foreplay.

Dividing in two
Sex is a quite fascinating activity. So do not be enthusiastic and remember that you are three in one bed. Your task is to divide yourself equally between two females. When you are engaged in sexual intercourse with one woman, do not forget about the other one. Try not to repeat your actions, provide both partners equal portions of pleasure.

Protection
You should arm with a number of condoms. When you make sex with two women, you should change condoms each time you move from one woman to other. As you will make it often, you need a good many condoms.  Also arm with water-based lubricant, as you never know what awaits for you in bed.

Oral sex
You cannot do without it in a threesome due to structure feature of the body. Women accept oral sex as one of the most outstanding show of faith and care. Do not be afraid to overplay and give oral sex to your women as much as you can.

Less conversation, more action
Instead of asking yourself “Am I doing right?”, “How do I look from outside?”, “What do they think about me?”, “Did they notice a hole on my socks?”. Remember that this threesome is performed just for pleasure. So, do what you want in the bed. Make sure your partners do the same. Therefore, when someone says “no”, do not persist. Respect her right for pleasure.

In the morning
When third person has gone, say your girlfriend that she is most beautiful and sexy woman in the world! Give her understand that threesome was just a sex game and an innocent prank. Say that you love her and only her. Threesome is nothing but sex. Do not abuse with attempts to repeat it. Even if you liked it, it would be better to repeat it in several weeks.

Sex Guide For Men: First Sex With A New Partner

Even most experienced in sex men may feel edgy before sexual intercourse with permanent partner, not to speak of sex with a new partner. However, man has all chances to be on the ball if he follows next sex tips.

Remember that all women are different. If you were seeing her several times and you not had sex yet, this does not mean she is not interested in you, this only means she needs more time to go into new stage of your relationship.  Have a little patience and soon your girlfriend will give you a wink that she is ready for sexual intercourse. When she will remain alone with you, it would be your time to act.

Do not hurry when the “green light” switches on! Rain kisses upon her, let her see that you are happy to be with her and it all is not just about sex. Little by little move from tender kisses to deep ones. After that you should consider other parts of her body. Remember that most sensitive in women are breast, inner side of hips, abdomen and buns. Spend 15 minutes of your time on foreplay and your girlfriend will be at point for your further actions. Never forget about female most erogenic zone – clitoris – as most women love oral sex.

Approaching to penetration remember that you are not obliged to make show in front of your woman and perform everything you know. For the first sex with a new partner choose most comfortable and familiar sex position. Do not forget that some women need clitoris stimulation in order to achieve orgasm. First sex should be best remembered for quality and not quantity. An average woman feels satisfied having sexual intercourse lasting 10 – 20 minutes.

If you really like this woman you should continue foreplay and after penetration. As a rule, women need 20 minutes of foreplay and intimacy after sex. You may just lie on the bed embracing each other or talking about something. Most important is to prevent her from thinking that you want just sex from her.

Do not be shy to call her next day, this is not annoying as you think. On the contrary, she will be vary glad  for your attention and would feel herself desired.

Foreplay Techniques and Tips

Is it good to start making sex without foreplay? No, because foreplay makes hot both you and your partner (a kind of stretching exercises before heavy ones) and also helps to moderate arousal in men and make women hot. Women need much these lovings.

In order to achieve colorful orgasm a female should be “heated” enough. Females may be compared with an iron which gets hot longer, and longer cools down. But males can be compared with a lightbulb which gets hot rapidly, and rapidly cools down.

It is wrong to think that foreplay is good just for females. First of all, foreplay is pleasant for both partners, it helps partners to love reciprocal each other. Furthermore, males with the increase of years also start getting hot much longer. This is individually. Someone need 5 minutes to get hot, and some need an hour for that. This depends on temperament and emotional bond between partners. The British conducted a study during which it was revealed that 17 minutes is enough for foreplay.

Foreplay Techniques

Do not hurry

Kiss and love her very slowly and this will make het arouse greatly.

Talk to her

Everybody knows that females love with their ears. Your voice will make her hot much stronger.

Play with her

Tease her making everything you want but without crossing the line permitted. You will see how much she would ask more.

Do not be afraid to look unfashionable

Simple and ordinary things in sex may drive any woman crazy. But the originality is welcome as well. Here is sequence of lovings in foreplay:

1. Hands. Take her hands in yours, kiss her fingers, then kiss her palms, try to feel her pulse with your tongue.

2. Breast. Never squeeze breast and screw nipples at the very beginning of the foreplay. Better take breasts in your hands and slowly turn them. When the nipples will swell – play with them.

3. Strong kiss. Let your tongue play with her lips and her tongue, use the tip of your tongue for that.

4. Kissing different parts of her body will finish the foreplay. After that you may move to the key goal that is sexual intercourse.

Pros And Cons Of Porn

Everybody decides for himself to watch porn or not. Let us see what are pros and cons of porn.

Pros:

1. Porn relieves stress

In fact, pornography turns into reality a normal human desire for voyeurism with minimal loss of reputation. There is no harm in porn while you accept it easily, not very seriously. This is the way of getting relief from stress – ones consume alcohol, other beat people around, and other watch porn. You see, watching porn is less harmful.

2. Porn changes your attitude towards sex

Porn may learn you to have more easily relation to sex. Pornography is probably the best thing to overcome complexes, problems and other dense narrow-mindedness When you watch on TV people making things you feared to think about, you start thinking that you could do the same things.

3. Porn may be a part of foreplay

Watching porn with your partner may become a great source of arousal (however, you should practice it not more than once a week, otherwise you may just get used to it). So when you will relate to the XXX production as a kind of additional materials, and you will see improvements of your sex life.

Cons:

1. Porn may confuse

Welcome to the world where all females are tanned, well-shaped with big breasts and where best job is plumber. And this world has nothing in common with real one. Pornography confuses people. British researchers proved that males and females consider they should look like porn stars in order to be attractive for opposite sex. This is not far from the truth (there is nothing bad in starting following a diet or making sports in order to be in form) but it is far from real life. Don’t forget that people on the screen are just actors and this is their job.

2. Porn reduces sexual response

Most products of sexual industry are made not for weak-nerved people. These people may become insensitive to normal sexual practices. Here start problems with arousal and other petty annoyances. And men start thinking why a woman? Maybe try a horse?

3. Porn leads to dependence

As you know, Internet was created for watching porn by American military. Pornography is something that causes pleasant feelings and that is why you may get used to it. According to data of Stanford University, 200 thousand Americans experience porn dependence.